farewell, Gully



Gulliver Raymond Bena
June 30, 1986 - Aug. 17, 2008 (9:30 pm - sunday)

He joined our Savior Jesus Christ on a sunday, his favorite day. we love you so much, Gully. thank you for being there always, thank you for the memories, you will be always loved and cherished... we love you, kapatid! mamimiss ka namin! I'm pretty sure he is happy now and HEALED in the arms of God. I can't believe he started strugglng around 12 noon yesterday. We all visited him and I even went home because we thought that he would still be ok. I bought him a white long sleeve shirt and I was speeding through the freeway (which I don't normally do) I wanted to be back home asap and drive again to the Hospice by Ewa beach. in a matter of minutes my brother passed away... they told me that he kept on asking for me, my brother waited for me until his last breath. thank you, Gully! thank you for everything... we love you!

I'll tell the whole story when I'm completely fine. right now I still can't believe he's gone... We are all so heartbroken yet happy because he is not suffering anymore. God bless to each and every one of you who has been supporting me and my family after all these years and all these months. even with the new found friends we had, thank you to all!


Love, Kit and family

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm very sorry to hear about this kit. Although, nasabi mo na sakn sa friendster ito. Nakakagulat din. Musta naman si tita? Sana okay namn kayo dyan kahit papano. Ingats kayo palagi there and condolence sa family nyo.

Anonymous said...

awwwww kakalungkot naman ang bata bata pa nya. hindi mo na siguro nabasa txt ko nong sunday kasi sobrang busy mo. De kasi ako makareply sa friendster kya txt nalang. We dont have to wrry we know that he is in the good place rightnow.

*hugs* to all of you guys!!

misspinay said...

ate kitty, kakalungkot naman ung brother mo.. and i didn't know what happened.. surprised ako ung nagmessage si ate scarty thru her twitter and didnt realize that your brother died.. so hope your family okay there.. take care there ate and condolence to your family! :)

May he rest in peace, gully!

Unknown said...

sis kitty, nalungkot ako. I am very sorry sis my condolence sa family nyo. Musta naman ang mommy and daddy mo? Aw im sorry hun, sobrang lungkot I don't know what to say.. love you girl..

Unknown said...

i'm so sorry to hear about this sis.. prayers are with you & your family... ingat kayo palagi *hugs*

Gracie said...

I'm sorry for your loss, sis.
My condolences to you and your family.

Anonymous said...

i came to check on ur brother and so sorry to read this. napaiyak ako. hugs to u sis. i prayed that he would get better but i guess Heavenly Father has other plans for him. i'm sure he is happy wherever he is right now and no longer in pain.

{{{HUGS}}} condolence to ur family.

**"Liza"** said...

Ohh Kitty I'm really sorry to hear about your brother. Naluha naman ako sa ngayari sa brother mo. Hopefully you all can get through this. I with Rissa I'm sure wherever he is now he is happy and proud to be part of your family.Condolence to you and your family.

Anonymous said...

Sis kit, kamusta na ikaw? sana ok lang lahat kahit ganun na nga nangyari sa kapatid moh.. kakasad naman :( takot ako mawalan ng minamahal sa buhay lalo pa family ko.. :( pero alam ko makakaya nyo yan sis.. basta pray lang kayo para maka move on kayo agad.. ingat palagi ganda.. love u.. condolence..

HiPnCooLMoMMa said...

my deepest condolences Kit.

Anonymous said...

condolence.. read you msg sa frendster di naman ako agad nakareply kase lagi ko karga ang baby ko.. di ako nakatulog nung gabing yon kakaisip sa inyo kase naalala ko lang mga posts mo before about gulliver. Napogian nga ako sa kanya sa pic. pogi naman talaga... haayy nakakahinayang.. Naalala ko rin took sya videos nung gabi sa condo kayo. diba. aww... nalulungkot talaga ako... pero maswerte naman sya dahil kayo ang naging pamilya nya. Buong buhay nya minahal nya kayo at sobrang minahal nyo rin sya... Masaya ang naging buhay nya kasama kayo. Kaya im sure masaya na sya ngayon watching over u. dunno wat to else say.. *hugs* i love u kitty!!!

HartofDixie said...

Everything happens for a reason Kit.
Be strong and have faith you will pull through all of this. We know he is in a better place now.
My deepest sympathy!

Anonymous said...

{{hugs}} to you sis... hindi ko alam kung ano sasabihin ko... nalulungkot ako pero lam ko 100x na mas nalulungkot ka kaya hug na lang kita... :~(

Anonymous said...

Oh, sorry to hear about your bro.
nakakalungkot isipin pero tama ka sissy happy na sya ngayon.
God Bless you all.
sending you lots of hugs...

Tiff k said...

Ate Kitty, condolences po ah... This will hurt really so much for your family but tama ka ate, he is Healed finally in His arms. I really like what you said about him. I pray for strength for you and your family. Nakakasakit talaga toh coz he was so young, but he is finally well.

I hope that you are coping well na ate, especially your mum and dad. I really hope that you're oki ate ah *hugz*

I am happy for Nathan though, for his days sa school. Good luck rin sa kanya!

*hugz*

Mommy Lutchi said...

Halo kitz, I saw the photos sa friendster mo, I am so sorry.His in God's hand now and no more pain and sorrow for him. Be strong and condolence to the whole family.Ingat palagi.

Ana P. S. said...

Naku! Namatay pala ang kapatid mo Kit. Heart breaking ito, grabe, ikinalulongkot kong nabalitaan ito. Nakikiramay ako sa inyo. I am so sorry to hear that your brother passed away. It reminded me of my young cousin din who died from the same illness. Anyway, condolence talaga sa inyo. He will live on sa heart and mind to those who loved him dearly. He will always be with you.

Anonymous said...

what a good looking guy and very young. nakakatakot talaga ang big C. it attacks anyone of any age.

kitty, my prayers are with you, your family and gully.

Joyce said...

awww Kitty...condolence...I'm so sad to hear this news and I know it must be so hard on you and your family but he is in a better with with our Lord. You take care and you'll be in prayers.

Unknown said...

sis kitty, musta ka na?

Anonymous said...

Condolences sa buong family mo kitty...you are right, at peace na sya ngayon....

pusa said...

my condolences to you and your family

jennyr said...

{{{{hugs}}}} I know God has special plan for all of us and there is somehow a good reason why your brother passed away...although it's sad to see someone leaving this world while still very young, we know that wherever he is, he's very happy! condolence Kitty...

Unknown said...

*Hugs* Kitty. I feel for you and your family.